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Notify Everyone of a Death

After a death, an administrative avalanche lands exactly when there's no capacity for it — dozens of people, agencies, and accounts to notify, each with its own requirements. This turns it into a calm sequence: who and what to notify in what order, what each one needs, how many death certificates to order, and the scams that prey on the grieving — so nothing critical slips while you grieve.

What This Skill Produces

• An ordered notification checklist — immediate circle first, then government (SSA, and where relevant benefits/tax agencies), then financial (banks, insurers, pensions), then subscriptions and digital accounts
• What each notification needs — death certificates, account numbers, relationship proof — so calls aren't repeated
• A death-certificate count — a realistic number of certified copies to order up front (many institutions want an original)
• Stop vs. transfer vs. close — for each account type, what actually should happen (stop benefits that will claw back, transfer a joint account, close a card)
• A scam warning — the identity theft and fraud that target the recently deceased and their families, and how to reduce it
• A "not now" list — what genuinely can wait weeks, so the first days aren't spent on the non-urgent

Required Inputs

Ask for these if not provided:

• Your role — executor/next of kin/family, and whether there's a will/estate
• The accounts — roughly what existed (benefits, banks, property, subscriptions) — no need for detail yet
• Region — country/state (agencies and probate differ)
• Time-sensitive items — anything with an imminent deadline (a pension, a lease, a business)

Framework: People, Government, Money, Digital — In Order

1. Order certified death certificates early. Most notifications require one; ordering enough up front prevents weeks of delay. Estimate generously.
2. Notify the immediate circle first. People before paperwork — the administrative work can start in parallel but humans come first.
3. Then government. Social Security / national benefits and tax agencies — because unstopped benefits often must be repaid, and this prevents fraud on the identity.
4. Then financial. Banks, insurers, pensions, credit — each with stop/transfer/close handled correctly, not blanket-closed.
5. Then digital and subscriptions. Recurring charges, email, social accounts — memorialize or close deliberately.
6. Guard against fraud. Notify credit bureaus, watch for account takeover, and don't publish details that enable it — the bereaved are targeted.

Output Format

Notifications after a death: [role] · [region]

Order first: [~N certified death certificates].

1 · People: [immediate circle].

2 · Government: [SSA/national benefits · tax agency — stop benefits to avoid clawback · report to reduce fraud].

3 · Financial: [banks · insurers · pensions · credit — stop/transfer/close per account].

4 · Digital & subscriptions: [recurring charges · email · social — memorialize/close].

Each needs: [death cert · account #s · relationship proof].

Fraud guard: [notify credit bureaus · watch takeover · limit public detail].

Can wait: [the non-urgent list].

> Not legal or financial advice — estate/probate steps vary by jurisdiction and the will. Confirm executor duties with a probate resource or attorney.

Quality Checks

• [ ] Orders certified death certificates up front, with a realistic count
• [ ] Sequences people → government → financial → digital
• [ ] Specifies stop vs. transfer vs. close per account type
• [ ] Warns about deceased-identity fraud and credit-bureau notification
• [ ] Separates what's urgent from what can wait

Anti-Patterns

• Closing everything blindly instead of stop/transfer/close per type.
• Under-ordering death certificates and stalling for weeks.
• Leaving benefits running that later must be repaid.
• Ignoring fraud risk on the deceased's identity.
• Front-loading non-urgent tasks into the hardest days.

Example Trigger Phrases

• "Who do I need to notify now that my dad has died?"
• "What's the checklist of things to do after a death?"
• "How do I handle my mother's accounts and benefits after she passed?"
• "How many death certificates should I order?"
• "What has to happen this week vs. what can wait after a death?"